Don't give up your personal freedom
Last updated 7/6/2021 at 9:44am
You may create instability and insecurity for your personal life if you put others in charge of your decisions.
The idea of a child or acquaintance "shouldering" your life's concerns and finances might feel comforting. Having someone else pay your bills and oversee your welfare might feel like a relief. For many it ends up being the end of freedom and security.
You love your children, or that special niece or grandchild. You are so bonded to them. You may feel that adding their name to your checking or other financial accounts will increase your bond and the ongoing warm fuzzy relations...